DIETS'S PARADOX & THE REAL SECRET TO SUSTAINABLE WEIGHT & FOOD FREEDOM: WHY TRADITIONAL CALORIE RESTRICTIVE DIETS FAIL US
- Rosalba Randal

- Jul 7, 2024
- 6 min read
Updated: Apr 5

For decades, we’ve been told that weight management is simply about “eating less and moving more.” Yet, if dieting were truly effective, why do 98% of people who lose weight through restrictive diets regain it within a year—often with extra weight?. Body Weight is more complex than calories IN and calories OUT.
The truth is, traditional diets fail us—not the other way around. Restrictive dieting creates a cycle of stress, hormonal imbalances, and metabolic slowdowns that make sustainable weight loss nearly impossible. Instead of achieving food freedom, many find themselves trapped in yo-yo dieting patterns, blaming themselves for a lack of willpower when, in reality, their bodies are simply responding to deprivation.
The Top Reasons these Diets Don’t Work in the Long Term
One-Size-Fits-All Approach – Most diets assume that every body is the same, neglecting individual metabolic rates, nutritional needs, emotional relationships with body and food, health Conditions, Environment and many other factors.
Hormonal Disruptions & Famine Response – Restrictive eating triggers stress hormones like cortisol and unbalance Insulin and this promotes fat storage, increasing cravings, and disrupting sleep.
Nutritional Deficiencies & Hunger Signals – Long-term calorie restriction leads to nutritional deficiencies, making the body feel perpetually hungry and more prone to binge eating.
Metabolic Slowdown – When deprived of adequate fuel, the body slows metabolism, making weight loss harder and weight regain more likely. Slowing down the metabolism. It is an ancestral survival strategy when the food was restricted.
Weight Loss Resistance – Chronic dieting conditions the body to store fat more efficiently, leading to stubborn weight retention. It is commun in yo-yo dieters that they reach a plateau or set point when in order for them to keep losing weight, they need to restrict calories even more than in the diet previous diet.
Emotional Triggers & Stress Eating – Food is deeply tied to emotions. Restrictive diets ignore these connections, exacerbating cravings and eating challenges, when we diet what we try to suppress and neglect these emotions but they usually appear stronger claiming it’s place and we can become irritable, sad, angry. Diets by themselves are not enough for us to process these emotions.
Hunger Suppression Backfires – Fighting hunger only works temporarily; once control is lost, the body compensates with intense cravings and overeating. Appetite is a healthy treasure that always will be with us just because we are alive, suppress it is impossible because we thrive for survival, when we try to neglect it through diets, it fires back making us ravenous.
Fatigue & Reduced Activity – Dieting often leads to exhaustion, making movement and exercise feel like a struggle. We usually exercise less and in less intensity when we are dieting.
Disrupted Sleep Patterns – Poor sleep, a common side effect of dieting, disrupts metabolism and hormone regulation, leading to increased fat storage because of hormones dysregulation.
Self-Esteem Denting:– When diets fail, people blame themselves, leading to shame, guilt, and negative self-talk that fuels emotional eating and dis-encourages us to follow our intentions.
We Miss an Opportunity: When we focus only on calories and food to lose weight, we miss and opportunity to know more our bodies, minds en emotions, because we see only one side of body weight, ignoring how linked the different aspects that are at play in Body Health and Balance. Having a more complete view, we open with curiosity to explore ourselves, we can become more empowered with knowledge and more equipped to harness our emotions and mindset in order to achieve our intended body results that are sustainable in the long term.
If you want to know more
Some Real Secrets to Food Freedom & Sustainable Weight Wellness
Instead of another Calorie restrictive diet, consider an approach rooted in self-awareness, nourishment, and a positive relationship with food, body, nature and the whole.
Some suggestions:
Cultivate Curiosity Around Your Eating Patterns – Take any eating opportunity to explore your relationship with food, emotions that trigger cravings, self-talk around eating observe your food and your body talk in a not judgemental way.
Attend and Address your Emotional Needs Beyond Food – Understand whether hunger is physical or emotional, take care of your emotions, find ways to meet them, and develop non-food strategies to fulfil emotional needs.
Practice Mindful Eating – Eating slowly enhances digestion, improves satiety, and increases food satisfaction. When we eat slowly we provide the brain with a pleasurable experience. Pleasure is one of the intentions behind eating., as well as survival.
Avoid/Minimize Stress and learn ways to manage it: Equip yourself with tools and techniques such as breathing and relaxation strategies to help to reduce levels of stress, as it has been found that stress is a very bad partner of having a healthy body Weight. Remember stress triggers cortisol which promotes fat storage and inflammation.
Prioritize Nutrient-Dense Food, avoid processed food: Whole, unprocessed foods provide lasting energy and naturally reduce cravings. Processed food tend to be addictive to favour the intention of the food industry, They unbalance insulin levels due of the high glycaemic index.
Balance Macronutrients for Satisfaction – Make sure that you have a well-rounded intake of proteins, essential Fatty Acids and carbohydrates since it helps the body feels nourished and energized avoiding getting into the cravings and extreme hunger.
Stay Hydrated – Proper hydration supports digestion, metabolism, and detoxification, detoxification prevents inflammation and controls levels of stress in the body since toxins are stressors. Good intake of water also helps us feel full with less amount of food.
Practice the kind of movement that you enjoy – Engage in physical activities that feel good rather than using exercise as punishment or a price you have to pay because you have eaten. Consistent and joyful exercise activates the metabolism even in times when you are not exercising.
Align Eating with Your Body’s Rhythms – Every thing in Nature has a rhythms, our bodies also have a metabolic rhythm. Listening to natural hunger and fullness cues optimizes digestion and energy. Make the most of the times of the day when the metabolism is more active: 7-8 am, 12- 1.30 pm and early evening. Avoid eating late at night since the calorie burning efficiency is at its lowest.
Enhance Sleep Quality – A well-rested body regulates hunger hormones, supports metabolism, and reduces cravings. The body increases fat burning at night in contrast with day time, when the calories burning is more from the muscle tissue.
Limit Alcohol & Sugary Beverages – These contribute to excess calorie intake without nutritional benefits. They are empty calories and unbalance insulin, which promotes fat storing.
Plan Meals to Avoid Extreme Hunger – Structured eating helps maintain stable energy levels and prevent binge eating. When we know when, where and what we are going to eat we can choose and be more discerning in contrast to when we don’t know, we can be less able to discern. When we don’t plan, we have to accommodate to what is at hand instead of being able to make healthier choices.
Embrace Food with Enjoyment Without Guilt – Making peace with food fosters a sustainable and healthy relationship with eating. Considering appetite for what it is and how it serves us instead of seeing it as an enemy, helps us to make peace with food.
Nurture Social Connections – Meaningful relationships reduce emotional eating by providing comfort and support beyond food. It also has been proved that people who eat together and share similar food and interest are less prompt to overeat and have emotional eating or binging.
Seek Professional Support If Needed – If eating challenges and/or body image feel overwhelming or come from deep traumas and you do not count with the tools to deal with them, it is important to find guidance, mentors, councillor, or psychotherapy that can support your journey to heal your body body weight struggles towards lasting transformation.
The Path to Lasting Change
True food freedom and sustainable weight wellness are not achieved through rigid dieting but through a holistic approach that embraces the complexity of the human body, mind and soul. Shifting the focus from restriction to nourishment, from control to self-awareness, and from punishment to care will reap lasting holistic well-being.
The journey to food and body freedom is an opportunity for deeper self-discovery, healing, and transformation if instead of fighting against your body, you learn to listen to it, honour its needs, and embrace a way of living that is empowering and therefore sustainable in the long term.









Comments